人(ren)(ren)独(du)处(chu)(chu)时(shi)(shi)思(si)(si)(si)想(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)、言(yan)语、行(xing)为谨(jin)慎(shen)就能在处(chu)(chu)世时(shi)(shi)做到(dao)(dao)心安(an)(an)理得，心平气和(he)。修身养(yang)性做人(ren)(ren)做学问(wen)的(de)(de)(de)道(dao)路(lu)，最难的(de)(de)(de)就是(shi)养(yang)心，养(yang)心中最难的(de)(de)(de)，就是(shi)做到(dao)(dao)在一个(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)独(du)处(chu)(chu)时(shi)(shi)思(si)(si)(si)想(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)、言(yan)语、行(xing)为谨(jin)慎(shen)。能够做到(dao)(dao)在一个(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)独(du)处(chu)(chu)时(shi)(shi)思(si)(si)(si)想(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)、言(yan)语、行(xing)为谨(jin)慎(shen)，就可以问(wen)心无愧(kui)，就可以对得起天地(di)良(liang)心和(he)鬼神的(de)(de)(de)质问(wen)。如果一个(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)在独(du)处(chu)(chu)时(shi)(shi)没有做过一件问(wen)心有愧(kui)的(de)(de)(de)事，那么(me)他就会觉得十分安(an)(an)稳，自己的(de)(de)(de)心情(qing)也(ye)常常会是(shi)快乐(le)(le)满(man)足宽慰平安(an)(an)的(de)(de)(de)，（做到(dao)(dao)在一个(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)独(du)处(chu)(chu)时(shi)(shi)思(si)(si)(si)想(xiang)(xiang)(xiang)、言(yan)语、行(xing)为谨(jin)慎(shen)）是(shi)人(ren)(ren)生中最好的(de)(de)(de)自强不(bu)息的(de)(de)(de)道(dao)路(lu)和(he)寻找快乐(le)(le)的(de)(de)(de)方(fang)法，也(ye)是(shi)做到(dao)(dao)守(shou)身如玉的(de)(de)(de)基础(chu)。

第二(er)、主(zhu)观上对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)物(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)态(tai)度(du)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)就能(neng)(neng)使身心强健。内心专一(yi)(yi)宁静浑然(ran)一(yi)(yi)体，外表衣(yi)着整齐态(tai)度(du)严谨，这(zhei)是(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)物(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)态(tai)度(du)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)的(de)(de)方法(fa)；一(yi)(yi)出门就像(xiang)要(yao)去拜访一(yi)(yi)个尊贵的(de)(de)客人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，就像(xiang)普通老百姓在祭祀(si)祖先时所表现(xian)出来(lai)的(de)(de)那种恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)的(de)(de)样子，这(zhei)是(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)物(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)态(tai)度(du)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)的(de)(de)气氛。想要(yao)凭(ping)借自己(ji)掌握的(de)(de)知识来(lai)安(an)抚(fu)老百姓，必(bi)须做(zuo)(zuo)到(dao)一(yi)(yi)丝(si)不苟恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)这(zhei)样老百姓才(cai)能(neng)(neng)信服，这(zhei)是(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)物(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)态(tai)度(du)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)的(de)(de)效果。聪明的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)和机智的(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，因为(wei)他(ta)们都能(neng)(neng)够做(zuo)(zuo)到(dao)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)物(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)态(tai)度(du)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)，所以总能(neng)(neng)够给别人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)留下一(yi)(yi)个美好的(de)(de)印象。主(zhu)观上对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)物(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)态(tai)度(du)庄重严谨恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)，就会一(yi)(yi)天(tian)比一(yi)(yi)天(tian)壮大自己(ji)，主(zhu)观上对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)物(wu)(wu)(wu)(wu)态(tai)度(du)傲(ao)慢无(wu)礼肆(si)意(yi)而为(wei)，就会一(yi)(yi)天(tian)比一(yi)(yi)天(tian)消亡自己(ji)。如果能(neng)(neng)做(zuo)(zuo)到(dao)无(wu)论对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)一(yi)(yi)个人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)还是(shi)一(yi)(yi)群人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、无(wu)论对(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)小(xiao)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)情还是(shi)大事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)情都态(tai)度(du)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)恭(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)，不敢有一(yi)(yi)丝(si)一(yi)(yi)毫(hao)松懈怠慢的(de)(de)意(yi)思(si)，那么(me)自己(ji)身体和内心的(de)(de)强健，还用值得(de)怀疑吗(ma)？

第三(san)、讲(jiang)(jiang)究(jiu)仁(ren)爱就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)能使人(ren)(ren)心悦诚(cheng)服。天(tian)底下人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)命(ming)，都(dou)是(shi)得到了天(tian)和(he)地的(de)(de)(de)机(ji)理才成就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)自我的(de)(de)(de)性格，都(dou)是(shi)得到了天(tian)和(he)地的(de)(de)(de)气(qi)息才成就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)自我的(de)(de)(de)形象(xiang)，我（指(zhi)曾国藩(fan)）和(he)普通老百姓(xing)相(xiang)比，对于(yu)(yu)生(sheng)(sheng)命(ming)生(sheng)(sheng)生(sheng)(sheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)息的(de)(de)(de)意(yi)义其实都(dou)是(shi)相(xiang)同的(de)(de)(de)。假如我（指(zhi)曾国藩(fan)）只知道(dao)自私自利(li)而不(bu)(bu)(bu)知道(dao)对老百姓(xing)讲(jiang)(jiang)究(jiu)仁(ren)爱对事物加(jia)倍爱惜(xi)，那(nei)么(me)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)违背甚至抛弃了生(sheng)(sheng)命(ming)生(sheng)(sheng)生(sheng)(sheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)息的(de)(de)(de)意(yi)义。至于(yu)(yu)那(nei)些享有(you)丰厚俸禄的(de)(de)(de)大(da)(da)官，高(gao)高(gao)地位于(yu)(yu)众人(ren)(ren)之(zhi)(zhi)上，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)应该承担起(qi)拯救老百姓(xing)于(yu)(yu)溺水之(zhi)(zhi)时和(he)拯救老百姓(xing)于(yu)(yu)饥饿之(zhi)(zhi)中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)责任(ren)。读(du)古(gu)(gu)书(shu)(shu)学(xue)习古(gu)(gu)人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)思(si)想，大(da)(da)概知道(dao)了古(gu)(gu)书(shu)(shu)中(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)意(yi)思(si)，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)应该有(you)大(da)(da)力推行古(gu)(gu)书(shu)(shu)中(zhong)自己(ji)已经领悟的(de)(de)(de)古(gu)(gu)人(ren)(ren)正(zheng)确思(si)想的(de)(de)(de)责任(ren)。孔子的(de)(de)(de)儒(ru)家学(xue)派(pai)教(jiao)育(yu)子弟，大(da)(da)都(dou)要(yao)(yao)求子弟要(yao)(yao)讲(jiang)(jiang)究(jiu)仁(ren)爱，而讲(jiang)(jiang)究(jiu)仁(ren)爱最根本(ben)的(de)(de)(de)，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)要(yao)(yao)想成就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)自己(ji)首(shou)先就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)要(yao)(yao)成就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)他(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)，要(yao)(yao)想富贵自己(ji)首(shou)先就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)要(yao)(yao)富贵他(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)。能够成就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)他(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)富贵他(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)，人(ren)(ren)们哪会有(you)不(bu)(bu)(bu)心悦诚(cheng)服的(de)(de)(de)归顺于(yu)(yu)他(ta)(ta)的(de)(de)(de)呢？

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